Awesome

So it finally happened then, i found a girlfriend again after way too many failures, and so long being alone and depressed about it. SUCH A LONG TIME. Our relationship is soon 3 months old from our first date, on which point we both agreed to date exclusively with only each other, before that we kept chatting via WhatsApp for example since we have still 300km distance apart so good to chat some major things out of the way, before meeting so it would not flunk too soon and such journey would have been for nothing. The date went well though there was a rather funny incident which we both noticed after the date.. as we were outside for a long time and sat on a park bench right at the ocean too a long time still, we both got pretty bad sun burns :D i burned worse though as i have been more sensitive to sun my entire life, funny still though since my last name is pretty much 'sunshine' (word to word, Dayray) in Finnish. I had a lot of freckles as child (also my beard grows in 3 colors, orange/red is one so i have some redhead genes in me, other two are blond and dark, so weird, my hair is light brown but in certain lights, one can see a slash of red in it). We did not plan so long times outside, sowere not prepared to have sun lotion on, and at the time we were busy being on first date so it didn't even cross our minds while actually improvising such activities together.

But yeah, as it went well, even had our first kiss already, we immediately started a relationship properly. And since then i have driven back and forth there for about 3 dates or so, and few random visits too since i have been around anyway: And why would i suddenly be around anyway so far away? Well of course because i began a job hunt near her immediately, and on the first interview out there, i got the job, even though at first they said on email before interview, they are looking for someone more experienced about their precise work. But since i said i learn regular work quickly and know installations and IT, etc etc etc, not gonna write my resume/CV here, but as i have good IT/ICT papers, and quite a lot of other work experience still from summer jobs between basic schools, evening job between occupational school, have done army of course so no need to take "break" to complete the duty, and have for example 2 year full day job, and other smaller jobs in my account, plus showed interest and enthusiasm, told about my motivation and intentions, and about myself how i want to keep positive attitude among all people i encounter like i did in the interview, they called about week later to tell me i got the job. Good paying job and the work sounds real nice, not a "get any job quickly" for my gf, but a good one instead. Then obviously i can't go to work everyday from 300km away as it takes a bit more than 3h to drive one way and a lot of fuel.. so became apartment hunt even before confirmation of the job, frustrating stuff especially at the capital area with high rents, high demand and need to have good reason and steady incomers are preferred rentees of course, after signing work contract indeed, i got a really good one on capital zone standards, high rent though but good area (no party teenagers, instead more like families and schools etc), and such a good looking crib too.

And now i have been handling the moving part a lot, everything is planned, when i go with solo cargo my car stuffed to the full of smaller stuff and get my keys to the crib, when i get help to carry heavy stuff like bed, sofa, washing machine, tables, a rental van to drive the rest of the stuff at once such a long trip on specific day after the first solo cargo.

So it all worked out well, and now we can build a relationship properly with my fresh girlfriend as i live close by and have steady income. I have become motivated to keep doing other stuff like planning to build a home theater system from my old car speakers, amp and pc power supplies, getting rid of pointless stuff i have hoarded too much even (though some actually are useful like the objects i just wrote). The move is near the end of September, so soon it all starts for real. Now i have done so much actually, stressed a little too much as well, that it is good to take a moment to breathe and enjoy my success. When motivated, i start to get shit done, and boy does she motivate me to be a better man, instead of being a bitter depressed and lonely poor musician.

She is such a sweetheart, the loveliest girl i have ever met, so cute too. My heart is just melting for her and i am eager to see where our future is going.